Community The hypocrisy in the gore community

[LadyCaterpillar]

Sex abuse victims, particularly male sex abuse victims, are significantly more likely to offend than their non-victim peers, often in a fashion not too dissimilar from their own lived experience. There's a huge conversation to be had about sexual trauma and its role in the development of illegal paraphilias. I don't have specific numbers on it, but it's at the very least a pretty common, though depressing, piece of wisdom.

Dude, annoys me so much that that's a talking we can't have irl, without internet anonymity and shit, but it is so true. I mean, if we could talk about it, it would probably help to find a way to fix it. Like, I have a paraphilia myself (not related to anything that we are discussing here) that is linked to the only traumatic experience I have in that department, and one of the few traumatic experiences I had in general. It cannot be a coincidence, it was in my mind before I had any contact with porn at all, and, as it does, porn just fucked it up even worse. But idk, I feel like if it was common knowledge I wouldn't have watered that seed, killed it before it grew roots. Idk

 

[Legion]

Sex abuse victims, particularly male sex abuse victims, are significantly more likely to offend than their non-victim peers, often in a fashion not too dissimilar from their own lived experience. There's a huge conversation to be had about sexual trauma and its role in the development of illegal paraphilias. I don't have specific numbers on it, but it's at the very least a pretty common, though depressing, piece of wisdom.

Jesus Christ, this Society...
I don´t wanna excuse/justify what is happening in Brazil and other Countries, but since i´ve also had to experience something similar (even though at a much older Age), it´s very sad (but still somehow interesting) to see how things like Violence and/or Abuse can change someone´s Personality...

 

[Legion]

How can you say something is so horrible if you have never experienced something else? When the kids are grown enough to go alone they go alone, willingly. You see kids chasing the gringos to sell themselves for the price of a Monster can and that's their reality and they will avoid police if there's ever a patrol, so they won't stop them, because if they won't provide them another option. It is a problem being currently debated right now in Brazil, actually, because a singer from a close region sang a song about it in a TV show and just now many people here are founding out about it, and everyone is pissed, the country is livid, today we have people in the streets of a big city here asking for justice. But as I said, pedo here is not an issue like it is in the Asian countries, and neither is kid gore as far as I'm aware, we have a problem with sexual tourism in general, but cause gringos come here just to have sex with the Brazilians (the adults), but they'll have sex with the gringos cause they like it, I mean, it's consensual sex, who doesn't like that?
About the cartel videos that's sadistic people doing sadistic shit to spread a message, but they don't live past 30, they always get killed too, either by police or rivals, so they stay a limited number

Allright, my bad, i didn´t consider the Possibility that those Kids are willingly selling themselves and to be honest, i don´t wanna think about it...
I mean, i get your Point, but it´s still disgusting...
And yes, this sounds very wrong, but considering that those Kids think selling themselves to a Gringo to earn some Money is "okay", it´s disturbingly fascinating to see how different People who got abused perceive it...
You´re right, if you haven´t experienced something else, it kinda becomes "normal" for you, i guess...at least that´s how i feel about Death, even though you can´t compare Death to getting sexually abused...
It´s simply...
I don´t know how to describe it properly...
Those Kids are growing up, thinking that selling themselves is a common thing, that´s so freaking messed up...
You know, my last GF abused me two times, so even though i was much older than those poor Children...i don´t know...

 

[LadyCaterpillar]

Allright, my bad, i didn´t consider the Possibility that those Kids are willingly selling themselves and to be honest, i don´t wanna think about it...
I mean, i get your Point, but it´s still disgusting...
And yes, this sounds very wrong, but considering that those Kids think selling themselves to a Gringo to earn some Money is "okay", it´s disturbingly fascinating to see how different People who got abused perceive it...
You´re right, if you haven´t experienced something else, it kinda becomes "normal" for you, i guess...at least that´s how i feel about Death, even though you can´t compare Death to getting sexually abused...
It´s simply...
I don´t know how to describe it properly...
Those Kids are growing up, thinking that selling themselves is a common thing, that´s so freaking messed up...
You know, my last GF abused me two times, so even though i was much older than those poor Children...i don´t know...

I understand, that it is indeed interesting to see how upbringing might make a person have a different view of the world, I feel that whenever I see a conservative country talking about clothes, like it is indecent to wear short shorts and clothes that show tummy but here it is ok. Anything sexual in general I feel the rest of the world has a way more conservative view in comparison to my country. So underage sex is common, but now I'm talking about true consensual and teens (I mean, I was having sex with an adult when I was 16, cause I wanted, and I still don't see a problem with that, but the gringos think I was groomed, lol, like, blame on my clitoris bitch). But the kids are another story, and it is heartbreaking to the rest of the country to see what happens in the poorest regions. To me if you do it for pleasure that's cool, if you do it for money something is wrong cause you shouldn't have to.

 

[LadyCaterpillar]

Allright, my bad, i didn´t consider the Possibility that those Kids are willingly selling themselves and to be honest, i don´t wanna think about it...
I mean, i get your Point, but it´s still disgusting...
And yes, this sounds very wrong, but considering that those Kids think selling themselves to a Gringo to earn some Money is "okay", it´s disturbingly fascinating to see how different People who got abused perceive it...
You´re right, if you haven´t experienced something else, it kinda becomes "normal" for you, i guess...at least that´s how i feel about Death, even though you can´t compare Death to getting sexually abused...
It´s simply...
I don´t know how to describe it properly...
Those Kids are growing up, thinking that selling themselves is a common thing, that´s so freaking messed up...
You know, my last GF abused me two times, so even though i was much older than those poor Children...i don´t know...

And also I'm sorry that happened to you... I'm no good at comforting, but I feel you in a way others might not relate, for I was also abused by a woman, and even tho I am a woman myself (was a girl at the time) people don't take it as seriously, cause they seem to think women aren't as capable of causing such damage as a man. We are less likely to, statistically, sure, but just as capable. Of course, I'm afraid of men, as I was taught to be for a good reason, but the one that caused me the most damage was a woman, society let the guards down with the ladies, and I benefit from that now just as much as I was a victim of.